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How to actually seduce via conversation.

Sex Advice from a  hot member of  British Mature Sex.

How To Seduce Via Conversation.

The Mystery Method is a solid foundation for understanding the basic structure of a, “pickup.” There’s 3 phases: attract, comfort, seduce.

  1. Attract: This is the approach and initial conversation. You fucked this up when you said this, “Hey I think you’re really pretty, would you care to go on a date with me sometime?” There’s nothing attractive about those things. There’s nothing attractive about asking a girl out within 10 seconds of talking to her. That is the opposite of attractive, it’s needy. It basically says, “Hey I don’t know you and I don’t care, I will go on a date with anybody who is mildly attractive!” Don’t be that guy. The goal during attraction is to open and demonstrate value. You say hi, maybe compliment her if you’re going direct, maybe cold read her, tell her a story about something you just saw outside the venue, tell a joke, etc. This step lasts like 5-10 minutes and you’re looking for IOIs (indicators of interest). If she turns towards you and gives you her full attention, smiles, laughs, asks you questions, or tells you a story, those are IOIs. She’s invested in the conversation now, so we can move on.

  2. Comfort: This is building rapport and building a connection. No more overtly demonstrating value, no more performing. You aren’t a circus clown. Now you can start asking her questions about herself, get to know her and let her get to know you. Of course you are making eye contact, speaking loudly and clearly, and standing up straight like always, but you can also start kinoing here. That is slow and gradual physical escalation. Give her a high five when she mentions something she accomplished, touch her shoulder when she says something crazy or ridiculous, thumb wrestle with her, teach her a handshake, hold her hands, etc. This could take anywhere from 10 minutes to 10 hours depending on the girl and what she wants. This is the stuff that happens during your first conversation, but also throughout your dates. You may need to pause, get her number, then invite her out to continue this process. Depends on the girl and what she wants. Either way, make sure you do some of this before you mention any dates or numbers. If you make it halfway through this step, need to leave, and can come up with an excuse to grab her number and do something later, then you’re ready to number close.

  3. Seduce: This is everything from kissing to sex. Enough said. Get here first, then worry about the process.

13 Stupidly-Satisfying Things All Women Want in Bed.

While sexual preferences are different for everyone, there are still a few universal tenets that make sex even better. Whether you’ve been with your partners for ages, or it’s your first time having sex, here are 13 things all women want in bed.

1. Cunnilingus on par with every dude’s blow job fantasy. You know how guys want you to be so into sucking their dick that you’re literally like, gagging and tearing up? We want the same for when we get head. No, you don’t have to tear up, but passionate enthusiasm never hurt anyone.

2. Ability to read the room re: cuddling. Sometimes you want to be cuddled and spooned, sometimes you want to stay on opposite sides of the bed. While these preferences can differ not only from person-to-person, but also with each situation, it’s best to check in with your partner and see what’s up. Just a simple “Can I spoon you?” or something works here.

3. An open mind. Maybe you want to bring toys into the mix or try something different in bed. Being vulnerable when you’re naked is even harder, so having a partner who you can trust and feel safe around is key.

4. Vocal enthusiasm. There is nothing hotter than a partner who is just stoked to be with you and can’t stop geeking out over how hot he thinks you are, or how much you turn him on. Get loud and get freaky with it. Tell her how much you want her and can’t stop thinking about her.

5. A partner invested in my pleasure too. A woman is not your hand, a fleshlight, or any other masturbatory aid. Don’t just use her body till you orgasm and then roll over and assume she had a great time too, because that’s not how it works. Being a good partner is about putting in equal effort. You don’t want to be the person who bailed on the group project all semester, just to swoop in and take credit for the A at the end.

 

6. Peace of mind when it comes to protection. Be prepared, and assume we’re doing it with a condom unless otherwise agreed upon beforehand. Don’t pressure me to take it off halfway through or look at me dumbfounded with your dick hanging out of your pants like you’ve never heard the word “condom” before. Just don’t do it! I will walk out. I really will.

7. An orgasm. Sex shouldn’t end with just the male orgasm — especially if she hasn’t had one yet. If you’re going to be too exhausted after you orgasm, make sure she’s taken care of beforehand. It’s not rocket science. If you know, for sure, you’re going to get yours, wouldn’t you want your partner to enjoy herself too?

8. Communication. There’s a time and a place for wordlessly-grunty sex, but having a partner who asks if you’re into something or if you want it another way is also nice. You don’t get any extra points for making it to the finish line without saying a peep.

9. A clean bed. It’s really, really hard to let yourself go and enjoy yourself if you can feel your calves brushing up against any sedimentary layers of sweat, grime, and hookups past on his Target comforter with every grunt.

10. A spare phone charger. If I have to call an Uber afterwards, I want to be able to listen to music or check Twitter on my ride back, and I can’t do that if I stupidly let my phone just rot for the nine and a half minutes we had sex. And if I’m staying the night, I might still want to check Twitter if you fall asleep before me. Sue me!

11. Foreplay. It’s not a race to the finish line! You can take your time and draw stuff out and enjoy yourselves. A little patience will carry you a long, long way. Besides, if the orgasm was the only thing that mattered about sex, I’d be dating the USB brick that charges my vibrator.

12. Sock removal. Please, please remove your socks before sex. It’s just so weird to see someone like, fully naked but still wearing socks that it can really take you out of the moment. Plus, then you run into the weird thing of like, “Should I have left my socks on?” “Do they not like feet?” “Do they think my feet are ugly?!” and spiraling into a hole of foot-based anxiety, which is not a place anybody likes to be.

13. Realistic expectations. Please don’t climb into bed with me just to morph from Jake in Accounting to Ron Jeremy. Porn sex is cool and all, but real life sex isn’t always like that, and I resent the notion that it’s totally normal for a guy to flip you over wordlessly and try to stick it in your ass while calling you a dirty slut and telling you he’s gonna finish in your hair. Like, we just watched three episodes of Frasier on your laptop, stop acting like your convertible 2-bed is a sex dungeon. Chill.